I’m not going to waste time with a fluffy intro.  Let’s get to the business of why you might want to buy a cock ring for your guy.

He’ll last longer.  First and foremost, cock rings prolong erection time because they restrict the blood flow.  This is ideal for anyone who experiences premature ejaculation or if you just want to keep the party going a little longer than usual.

He’ll get (a little) harder and bigger.  They make the cock harder, leaner and meaner.  They allow for a raging hardness and plumpness that you’ll both enjoy.  This means a slight temporary increase in size.  Fun!  Be careful though, too much of a size increase means that the cock ring is too tight and could become too difficult to pull off.  Take that ish off immediately!

He’ll have better orgasms.  Much to his pleasure, cock rings also contribute to more intense and often longer orgasms. Some claim their orgasms last up to a minute!  The holding back allows his orgasm to be more pleasurable and can lead to increased splooge volume!  Who doesn’t want to have the best orgasm possible?

Choosing the right cock ring:

I always advise against using metal cock rings.  It’s just too hard (heh) to gage what size you need.  Obviously metal doesn’t stretch, and if you realize that it is too small by the time he is too hard, this could mean a trip to the hospital.  Some expert cock ring users can get away with it, well congrats to them. If you’re not an expert, just keep the metal away from your cock.

Go with something flexible or that has some give at the very least.  Rubber is super stretchy.  100% silicone is less stretchy, but has a nice give and is body friendly for both of you (won’t cause any skin irritation).  Leather is another option for those who like to dress their cocks up a bit in fine Italian clothing.  This type usually comes with snaps, so even if the leather doesn’t stretch it can be easily removed.

You want the cock ring to fit snug when flaccid, but not squeezing the life out of it.  If it starts to hurt or feel cold at any time, take it off!  Feel free to use some lube to help get it on and take it off.  You might get pretty excited the first time you experience the magical powers that belong to the cock ring.

Do not leave the cock ring on for longer than 30 minutes.

I know, you’ll both be excited about boner time, but remove it for his safety.

Want a little buzz that you’ll both enjoy?  Try a vibrating cock ring!

Happy cock ring shopping!

My interest is totally peaked by the Joya Sphere.  Perhaps it’s that Yin Yang symbol pulls on my 60′s/90′s lovin’ heart strings, but either way it looks like a pretty neat vibrator.  The Sphere actually includes 2 vibrators, so you can share with your partner keep them both to your self.  Joya creates awesome body friendly products and I’d love to give this one a whirl.

“The new Sphere Intimate massager features two totally separate yin-yang shaped massagers presented in one sleek, acrylic storage case.

Each massager offers 5 surprisingly strong, discreetly quiet modes. The white half offers 5 graduating speeds, while the black half offers 5 unique pulsation modes.

The tear-drop shape of each massager can easily reach around the body`s curves.

Made from premium-grade, non-porous, non-toxic and hypoallergenic ABS plastic.

Sphere`s shell is waterproof and easy to clean, and boasts a silky PU coating which gives their surface a sensual feel that`s easy to hang on to.

Each massager measures 4.85 inches height x 2.5 inches width x 1.4 inches circumference

Each massager requires 2 AAA (total of 4) batteries (not included)“

Sex in the shower always seems like a great idea.

Both of you are soaking wet, consumed by each others’ passion, the shower head covers you with lust water as you engage in wild animalistic sex acts.

The Reality:

Only one person gets the water, the other is covered with goose bumps.

Unlike your ass, the shower is a little smaller than you remember.

Balancing on one foot isn’t so easy.

And what the hell are you supposed to hold on to?

Sportsheets gets it.  They created their Sex in the Shower line for all of your wet and wild needs.

I’ve mentioned the Dual Shower Head before, but damn would this thing be useful.  You both get wet while you enjoy the your romp in the shower.  You can also change the settings for a relaxing massage or full body coverage.

So, you’re bent over and you need to put your foot somewhere.  The ledge is a little too low and you damn sure can’t get your foot all the up to the soap dish.  You can put the Single Locking Foot Rest anywhere you please.  Simply place the foot rest on the shower wall and flip the lever up to lock it into place.  Bend over and enjoy.

If you’re like me and you prefer it on the rough side, you definitely need some leverage.  Who wants to deal with a slip and fall in the middle of a hot and steamy shower sex session? So simple, yet so amazingly awesome is the Dual Locking Suction Handle. Lock it in place and hold on for the ride!

These are just my Sex in the Shower favorites.  Check out everything they have to offer, from Shower Sex Mirrors to Suction Handcuffs.

Getting bored in the bedroom?  A sex swing just may be the way to go.

You can have weightless sex and achieve positions that are not physically possible on the bed.  Trip to the moon not required.  They are also great for people who have minor physical ailments, sore backs or who get fatigued easily.  Bonus: Sex swings come fully assembled and with installation hardware.  Take a look at the Pleasure Swing.

What makes the possibilities endless?

Adjustable Straps: Sex Swings usually come with adjustable straps for your back, your rump, a set of stirrups and a torque suspension bar.  When you adjust the length of the straps, the swing-ee may sit upright, lean back, position themselves doggy style or anywhere in between.  The torque suspension bar (the bar that connects the two sides of the metal frame) provides balance and even weight distribution.  More importantly it can be used as leverage – cowgirl position yehaw!  Don’t forget, the nonswinger can always use a chair for certain positions.

Spring Loaded Sex: Most swings come with a spring or bungee that hangs from the ceiling or stand.  That means you bounce with very little effort.  You can keep going and going without getting completely exhausted in a couple of minutes.  The extra movement from the swing also allows you to stimulate each others’ hot spots in ways you couldn’t imagine.  G Spot stimulation during intercourse is possible and can get quite intense with all of that bouncing going on.

Sex 360: Most sex swings have the ability to rotate 360 degrees.  No need to get in and out of the swing to change facings and there are no limitations when you are in the middle of a steamy hot swing session with Pipedream’s Fantasy Swing.

Sex Swing Safety

First of all, you want to check your sex swing’s weight capacity.  Next, and extremely important, make sure you have a ceiling beam or door way that can support the swing!  Even if your swing can hold up to 400 pounds, if you hang it from an unsupportive structure you are going to end up on the ground and on top of each other with ceiling debris all over you.  You could injure yourself!  If you don’t have the proper place to hang your swing, a sex swing stand is the way to go.  They are easy to assemble, disassemble and store.  Plus, you won’t have to put a hole in your ceiling.

Make sure you move other objects and furniture out of your way.  You don’t want to knock over any lamps or run into the coffee table (total mood killer).  Give yourself plenty of room so you can fully enjoy your swing.

Do your research and read the manual.

Notice that I used words like usually and most.  While swings tend to have the same general structure, they do vary between manufacturers.  Some come without springs and they tend to have different weight limits depending on whether or not you use a spring.  Also, if you are going to use the sex swing stand, make sure you purchase a compatible swing.

Have fun and use your imagination. I personally love my swing and I know many couples that sound like an infomercial when they talk about the awesome sex they have had when using theirs.  “Our sex swing changed our lives!”  It sounds a little corny, but hey as long as they are having great sex I’m okay with it.

Greetings from Las Vegas!  I have been living it up all weekend with burlesque performers from around the globe.  I have been lounging by the pool, playing black jack and watching burly-q performed by legends from past and present.  The phrase, “pop a pastie”, can be heard at any given time.  It is a dream vacation!

Have I made you jealous?  You can’t enjoy wild casino nights with me, but you can have fun with the Sex Casino Game.  What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas, but you can play this game in the comfort of your own bedroom.  Or living room, kitchen or anywhere you want to place your naughty bets (and bits)!

“25 Outrageously fun bedroom games. Spin, scratch, bet, and roll for outrageous bedroom fun! Turn your bedroom into an exclusive pleasure mecca with Sex Casino. This game kit comes packed to the brim with everything you and your partner need for a rip roaring good time between the sheets!

Game includes playing cards with sexual favor betting chips, naughty dice, scratch and win lotto cards and a sexy spinner game. Plus an amazing game manual with 25 outrageously fun bedroom games. All of which will leave you guessing whether skill or simply good luck makes you a winner. Find out how chance, risk and luck can be a winning combo in your bedroom! Game Kit Includes: Playing Cards, Sexual Favor Betting Chips, Naughty Dice, Scratch and Win Lotto Cards, Sexy Spinner and Game Manual packed with 25 outrageously fun bedroom games!”

I will be back soon to announce the winner of my Fabulous Shopping Spree Contest!

The Screaming O Plus Vibrating Cockring

“Vibrating love ring with soft and stretchy band that helps him maintain a longer, harder erection. Extended Ticklers For Her The Screaming O Plus features soft vibrating pleasure bumps to transfer the stimulating erotic vibrations to the clitoris during sexual intercourse.

Safe Easy On/Off Switch The Screaming O Plus offers 25 minutes of vibrating pleasure activated by the easy, secure push forward on/off switch. With an Erection Band For Him, The Screaming O Plus has a strong, comfortable, stretchy gel band for a snug fit for longer, thicker, fuller erections on demand.”

Cockrings are of course great for prolonged erection.  The ones that vibrate add something special for her.  For those ladies who prefer penetration combined with vibration, this boy’s toy is for you.  I am sure the boy sporting the buzzing ring of glee will enjoy the vibration at least a little bit as well.

The Screaming O Plus Vibrating Cockring is small and disposable.  Put it in your pocket or purse for some added fun anywhere you go.  No cleaning and no figuring out what to do with it when you’re finished.  The price is beyond reasonable; go ahead and buy a few!

Speaking of toys for boys for girls, check out Sara’s post on the Tantus Silk Small over at the SexToys.com blog.  Couples who have always wanted to try pegging will want to read it!

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