I’m not going to waste time with a fluffy intro.  Let’s get to the business of why you might want to buy a cock ring for your guy.

He’ll last longer.  First and foremost, cock rings prolong erection time because they restrict the blood flow.  This is ideal for anyone who experiences premature ejaculation or if you just want to keep the party going a little longer than usual.

He’ll get (a little) harder and bigger.  They make the cock harder, leaner and meaner.  They allow for a raging hardness and plumpness that you’ll both enjoy.  This means a slight temporary increase in size.  Fun!  Be careful though, too much of a size increase means that the cock ring is too tight and could become too difficult to pull off.  Take that ish off immediately!

He’ll have better orgasms.  Much to his pleasure, cock rings also contribute to more intense and often longer orgasms. Some claim their orgasms last up to a minute!  The holding back allows his orgasm to be more pleasurable and can lead to increased splooge volume!  Who doesn’t want to have the best orgasm possible?

Choosing the right cock ring:

I always advise against using metal cock rings.  It’s just too hard (heh) to gage what size you need.  Obviously metal doesn’t stretch, and if you realize that it is too small by the time he is too hard, this could mean a trip to the hospital.  Some expert cock ring users can get away with it, well congrats to them. If you’re not an expert, just keep the metal away from your cock.

Go with something flexible or that has some give at the very least.  Rubber is super stretchy.  100% silicone is less stretchy, but has a nice give and is body friendly for both of you (won’t cause any skin irritation).  Leather is another option for those who like to dress their cocks up a bit in fine Italian clothing.  This type usually comes with snaps, so even if the leather doesn’t stretch it can be easily removed.

You want the cock ring to fit snug when flaccid, but not squeezing the life out of it.  If it starts to hurt or feel cold at any time, take it off!  Feel free to use some lube to help get it on and take it off.  You might get pretty excited the first time you experience the magical powers that belong to the cock ring.

Do not leave the cock ring on for longer than 30 minutes.

I know, you’ll both be excited about boner time, but remove it for his safety.

Want a little buzz that you’ll both enjoy?  Try a vibrating cock ring!

Happy cock ring shopping!

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The Canadian born gay porn star/DJ/ridiculously hot, Pierre Fitch got his very own Fleshjack.  Sure, this toy is for boys and we don’t even have it available on our site yet, but it’s as good of an excuse as any to ogle this tattooed stud muffin.  To be precise he actually has 2 * Fleshjacks.  One modeled after his mouth and one after his butt.  Pierre also comes in two textures, The Squeeze and The Scorpio.  The second is inspired by his scorpion tattoo… he also happens to BE a scorpio.  Hey, I’m a Scorpio too!  Just sayin’.

Check out the article on AVN.com for more info. To just stare, stay right here.

Check out all of our Fleshlight products here!

Weenie Wednesday has begun over at the SexToys . com blog! You should stop by and get the details, but what I will tell you is that you can get a really great deal on a Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit.  Buy it for your guy and you’ll get a lot more than just the satisfaction of knowing you did something nice for him.

Looking for a toy for your boy?  Tenga Eggs are here!

My boy loves them!  He has a tried a variety of masturbators, but the Tenga Eggs are at the top of his list.  They are super stretchy and feel awesome, according to my gentleman.

You can pick up a six pack and try all of the awesome shapes and designs.  His personal favorite it the Wavy.

“They’re not just for breakfast anymore! Enjoy self-pleasure anytime with Tenga Eggs. Peel the outer layer like you would a hard-boiled egg, then crack open the shell to reveal an ona-cup.

These egg-shaped masturbation sleeves offer several unique internal textures. Get different stokes from different yolks! Wavy has horizontal ripples and Twister has vertical ones. Silky features a thread-spun surface while Spider is lined with a web pattern. Clicker has protruding spheres; Stepper has notched out semi-circles. Stimulate the penis head or stretch the sleeve down the entire shaft.

Although intended for a single session, the cup could be used a couple of times if handled and cleaned carefully. Indulge in a diet of delicious sensation with these incredible, pleasurable eggs!”

He must be pretty special because prostate massages are known to give men full bodied, explosive orgasms that will have them groveling at your feet for days to come.  The male prostate is equated with the female g-spot and is often called the p-spot.

Here is a little how to and why:

Prostate Massage = Prostate Health

- Increases blood flow to the prostate which supplies nutrients and oxygen to the male reproductive system.
- May help improve erectile function.
- Can boost semen quality.
- And more!

I am not a doctor!  Check with a medical doctor to see what health risks are associated with prostate stimulation.  It is known that people with prostate cancer or acute prostatitis should not receive prostate massages, as it could cause both to spread.  Visit your doctor and find out what other conditions apply.  Proceed at your own risk!

What you will need:

- Lube
- Latex gloves, nitrile gloves or finger cots.
- Prostate Massager – If you choose to use one, finger(s) works.

Preparation:

- For Him – He should take care of his business and make sure everything is empty, shower and clean thoroughly
- For you – Wash your hands thoroughly, trim your fingernails and smooth rough edges, have your lube and gloves ready to go.  One gloved hand is sufficient.

I am assuming you have set the mood and made sure everyone was on the same page and ready for the back door expedition. 

It is generally best for him to start lying on his back with his knees up.  Start with a little foreplay and get him aroused – enjoy being in the driver’s seat!  Apply a generous amount of lube to your gloved hand.  Tease externally first.  Massage the entrance with slow circular motions.  Pay attention to his body language and the noises he makes.  Does he seem nervous and tense, or does it seem as though he is offering up is tush? 

Now for the real prostate massage how to:

Slowly and gently slide your lubed gloved finger into his anus.  You will feel a bulky mass that is about the size of a walnut.  That is the prostate gland.  You can use a circular technique, the upward come hither technique (as if you are summoning someone to come towards you with your finger) or a press and release technique.  Whatever you choose, it is best to not focus too much on the very center of the gland.  It is very sensitive.  While you should find a rhythm, do not vigorously massage the prostate – you may cause damage!  There will only be a thin layer of skin separating your finger from the gland and it is quite fragile.  The whole process should be gentle.  Continue to stimulate him in other ways unless he requests otherwise.

Again, pay attention to his reactions.  If he seems uncomfortable, check in and make sure he wants to continue.  If his eyes are rolled back and he is moaning with pleasure, keep doing what you’re doing!

What will happen?

Non-ejaculatory fluid may be released (excess fluid from gland).  This is called milking the prostate – another health benefi. 

He may have an earth shattering non-ejaculatory full bodied orgasm.  Awesome! 

Put your goggles on because he may have a seriously explosive orgasm!  During the massage, additional seminal fluid will be produced.

Aneros Maximus

Enjoy sending your partner to orgasmic bliss.  When you are finished, slowly slide your finger out and give yourself a pat on the back (after you wash your hands).  Giving pleasure can be as rewarding and stimulating as receiving it.  After washing up, go ahead and get your vibrator out.  You deserve it!

If you are not comfortable using your fingers, we offer a ton of great prostate massagers.  Many men love products by Aneros.

Have fun and communicate.  Prostate massage can bring your adult play to a whole new level.

So far in my shared masturbation series I have discussed communication, interaction and setting the mood.  I love my lesbian readers and of course believe you should use toys during your shared self love sessions.  However, today’s post is written in honor of the Toys for Boys weekend.

Ladies, let your boys share the sex toy fun.  We love our vibrators and dildos, but there a ton of products on the market for men.  If your guy has never used a masturbator or simulated vagina, perhaps it’s time to get him a present.  Watching my boy use his masturbator gets me all hot and bothered.  I even question which one of us likes it more.

Ladies, your boys would enjoy his own toys as much as you love playing with this!

 
Remember, sex toys are not the competition!  A toy could never replace the intimate moments or the scorching hot passion that occurs during love making; or during hot, sweaty, dirty, kinky, hair pulling, ass slapping, nail digging sex that makes the dog hide under the bed and the neighbors call the police. 

So what are masturbators anyway?  Aren’t we all masturbators?  In toy terms:

“Masturbators come in a variety of shapes, sizes, colors, textures and materials. Masturbators are designed for insertion of the penis to create a life-like sensation along the shaft of the penis. Some, like pocket pussy models, recreate the feeling of penetrating a vagina, while others can simulate anal penetration. There are also fantasy masturbators to add visual appeal to masturbation. “

Some masturbators vibrate too!  You and your boy could both enjoy the power of the buzz.

I have heard from an inside source that the Magic Bullet Masturbator is a great way to go.  It is soft, tight and packed with powerful vibrations.

My boy has never used a simulated or life-like vagina.  This is something I would love to watch!  Am I alone here ladies?  Perhaps this isn’t for everyone, but I am sure some of you wives and girlfriends out there are at the very least curious.  Plus, I sort of just want to play with one.

“Life-like vaginas are usually molded from a real vagina (often a porn star) and simulate the feeling of penetrating a real vagina. They come in a variety of colors, sizes, textures and shapes. Some life-like vaginas also have anal openings to allow for the simulation of anal sex. These sex toys are popular with men because of the realistic sensations that they provide. “

Roxy Jezel’s Doggie Style Ass & Pussy caught my eye.  It is molded with great detail after the performer herself.  You can use the included vibrating bullet with this one too.

Let your boys in on the fabulous world of sex toys!  Put something on your list for your guy when you enter for a chance to win $1000 in free sex toys on my Fabulous Shopping Spree!

Check out this weekend’s Sunday Sex Toy Review for fun with Toys for Boys!  You will also find how out who won the List with the Sexiest Toys for Men Contest.