Are you and your mate getting bored in the bedroom?  Is your routine getting a little too routine?  Do you simply want to try something new in the sack?  Strap on sex is here to save the day!

Whether you are a lady who holds a strict girls only policy, a boy lovin’ babe or somewhere in between (some may call us selfish), strap on sex is a sure way to put the jolt back in anyone’s cola of kink.

We have plenty of harnesses, strap on dildos and all in one kits for you to choose from.  Let’s chat about them, shall we?

Harnesses, you say?

Vibrating harness with interchangeable O rings

The harness is the apparatus that you wear in which the dildo is attached to.  It connects you to the fun.  There are various styles:

G-string/ 2 strap – One strap around the waist, one between the legs

- Less secure than other types; sagging of the dildo tends to occur, the dildo may flop, in turn you will have less control.
- Straps may rub in between the cheeks and may be irritating.

Bikini/panty- exactly what it sounds like

- Some come in the form of shorts
- Less secure, less control and flopage has been known to occur with this variety
- Some find these to be more comfortable then the G-string style harnesses.

Three strap – one strap around the waist, 2 thigh straps: each strap comes from the crotch and wraps around each thigh.

- Very secure and gives you maximum control of your newest member!

Like most things in life, there is some variation within these harness types.  Some even vibrate!  What is awesome about all strap on harnesses?  There is a chance that the wearer will also get a pleasurable sensation from them!  That’s right, while the strap on-er is giving it to the strap on-ee, there will be a little movement and the friction from the harness will put a tingle in just the right spot.

When it comes to choosing the right one for you, you must decide which would be most comfortable and how much control you want to have over your fun new appendage.

How do you attach the dildo to the harness?  The most common is the o-ring style attachment.  Once the dildo is in place, the ring secures the dildo’s flared base to the harness.  The o-ring must be larger than your dildo.  If the ring is too small for your dong, it won’t fit and then everyone is just sad.  Keep this in mind and try to purchase a harness that allows you to change the o-rings so you can use different sized dildos.

Can’t I just use any old dildo during strap on sex?

No, but you can use a lot of them.  Strap on dildos must have a flared base or set of balls.  Got it?  Some dildos are made with strap on harness compatibility in mind.  Both Tantus and Vixen Creations make lots of fabulous silicone dildos that are perfect for steamy hot strap on sex.

Strap on Kits come with the harness and compatible dildo all in one!  No need to play the strap on dildo-harness match game.  It has been done for you!  Some even come with multiple o-rings so you can change out your dildos.

What about those Vac-U-Lock contraptions?  Doc Johnson has patented a system in which the hollow end of the dildo locks on to the “attachment plug” protruding from the harness.  Only Vac-U-Lock dildos are compatible with Vac-U-Lock harnesses and vice versa. 

Have fun choosing your tools of choice.  Think about the right size, what type of harness you would be most comfortable in and so on.   Strap on sex is fun, but if the equipment isn’t right you won’t get the most out of your play time.

I am in love with the Vibrating Corsette Harness by Sportsheets!

Sarah from the Sextoys . com blog introduced me to it yesterday.  She has a great eye for fabulous products and knew I would love this one.

Burlesque and corsettes go together like lube and anal sex.  Call me a cliché, but as a burlesque performer I am drawn to this harness.  The lace up back is incredibly sexy, especially with the dangling bow just barely tickling your tushy.  The plush purple material is elegant and appealing to the eye.  There is no need to feel or look dumpy when strapping it on. 

So it looks great, but what about function?  It is made by Sportsheets so I am confident that it is a quality product.  They are known for taking great pride when it comes to making products for couples’ play time.

”Everyone will be happy when you add this Vibrating Corestte Harness to your sex toy arsenal. This luxurious harness is built to fit up to 60 inch hips and includes a bullet vibe and three interchangeable rubber o-rings (1.5, 1.75, 2.0 inches).

The harness is made out of plush fabric and seductively shapes your ass into the shape of a heart, so you’re sure to look as good as this plush Sportsheets’ harness makes you feel.”

If you want this product as much as I do then you will need a dong to go with it.  Check out Sarah’s Revue of the Sedeux Skyn Dildo by Sportsheets and find out if that is the one for you.  Also, she wants to know where the love is for the Hitachi Magic Wand.  Find out why and show her some love while you are at it.  After all, she did introduce me this awesome Corsette Harness.  Thanks Sarah!

The Tantus O2 Revolution Candy claims to feel real.  It does feel real, real big.

This dong was my first Tantus Silicone toy.  I was simmering with excitement as I waited for it to arrive.  I knew it was of size, but I didn’t realize what exactly I was in for.

As soon as I lay eyes on my pretty pink new toy it my jaw dropped.  “How am I going to fit this…” just kept running through my mind.  I was eager and nervous all at the same time.  I thought to myself, well if I can’t use it I can always set it up as an art instillation.  With some nice lighting and a small electric turn table it would look great in my living room.  Perhaps some electronic music would be a nice touch.  The toy is beautiful.

It felt great in my hands.  I could tell that all of the wonderful things I heard about Tantus products were true.  The O2 Revolution felt solid and well constructed.  The excitement surpassed the nervousness and it was time to give it a go.

I got the water based lube out and attempted to use it.  I knew better, but I tried to use it without much of a warm up.  One would think that this would be painful.  It wasn’t.  It simply didn’t go anywhere.   My man/ Sex Toy Testing Assistant was lying there next to me.  While he was impressed by my eagerness, he looked at me like, “did you really think that was going to work”?  So, I used my Jumbo Bullet to get the party started.  It only seemed appropriate to use the big bullet for the big dong.  With a little self lovin’ and a lot more lube I was able to slowly use the O2 Revolution.

It felt just like the real thing!  Because of its thickness I could feel the details of the head shape and veined texture. The flared base made for easy control of the toy.  I couldn’t thrust the dong too much, but vigorous movement wasn’t necessary.  The full sensation with very little motion was quite satisfying.  This was true even without the vibrating bullet.  For a girl who can usually only handle medium sized toys, this was quite a feat.  I was beaming with pride.  However, I was glowing with the joy over the level of pleasure!

Once I brought the bullet back into play I was on a one way trip to orgasm land.  Once all was said and done, I was in a euphoric state of contentment.  I also had to give myself a little pat on the back for handling the O2 Revolution.

Clean up was easy.  It is made from 100% silicone so I boiled that baby and went on with my day.

The O2 Revolution won’t get used on a regular basis, but it will make an appearance when fullness is desired.  So much for the art instillation.

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I love bullets.  I can’t stop looking at the Power Bullet Breeze.  I’m not sure if it is the toy’s soft and slender sexiness or the 1980′s splatter painted packaging that keeps me coming back.  Whatever it is, it is getting added to my ever growing Wish List.

I always know I can count on a bullet to get me right where I need to be.  Depending on the brand, you generally get a few speeds to choose from and they are easy to use.  For those times when you just need some buzz before the wall banging, a bullet does the trick.  I love my Rabbit vibe and of course I adore my Cone, but sometimes I need low maintenance masturbation sessions.
 
What makes the Power Bullet Breeze so special?  First of all it is 5 inches in length.  That is roughly twice as long as your standard bullet.  I love that I have a little more to hold on to.  When the party gets started it is sometimes difficult to keep my grip on the slippery toy.  With the Power Bullet Breeze, one end can work its magic on my girly bits and I can hold on to the other end.  You just don’t have that option with the smaller bullets.

What else attracts me to the Breeze?  Life span.  I have a little bullet graveyard.  Bullets are generally so reasonably priced; I just buy new ones instead of replacing the batteries.  Sadly, I only get a few uses out of some of them.  Well, the Power Bullet Breeze lasts for 6 hours nonstop on high speed and 12 hours nonstop on low speed.  Do you know how many uses I can get out of this?  My pleasure parties for 1 range in duration so I won’t do the math.  I know I can get a lot of use out of this thing!

Here are some more facts:

- Wireless and Waterproof: No I don’t want to make a cat’s cradle or Jacob’s ladder out of my sex toys. Yes, bath time is for more than exfoliating and washing my hair.  The fact that I am clean after a bath is but a perk if you ask me.
- 3 Speeds with Push Button Control: Achieving an orgasm should not require help from tech support.
- Non-porous and Phthalates Free: The only foreign objects I want near my pretty pink parts should be attached to a hot European man or woman.
- Quiet Vibration: Solo play time should not involve flash backs from the drill at the dentist’s office.
- Costs Less Than $20: The economy is in rough shape, but that isn’t going to stop me from masturbating.

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Ladies, are you into discovering new aspects of your sexual personality?  Are you a little bored with the same old candles and massage oils used for foreplay?  Does the thought of being restrained stimulate your curiosity?   Are you a little intimidated by leather straps with metal chains and buckles?  Are you ready for me to get to the point?

Tub Cuffs by Rachel’s Pleasures just might be a great way to get to know your kinky side.

 
“They look like regular Cumfy Cuffs, but instead of snaps, these cuffs have suction cups. Made of durable padded nylon, the cuffs can go into wet or dry environments and still keep a grip.”

“The suction cups allow you to play in the bathtub, swimming pool, jacuzzi, or anywhere else you can imagine putting them. Take the fun from the bedroom to anywhere else your mind can find a use for these fun toys!”

Being restrained allows you relinquish control and feel the erotic bliss of anticipation.  You belong to your lover or play pal.  You are theirs to tease, tickle and please.  Being dominated, even on the beginner level, will turn you on more than any bubble bath ever could.

Go ahead and get your beginner bondage feet wet with these Tub Cuffs.  There is no need to jump in head first with the Arm Binder .  But hey, who am I to stop you?

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