Summer Savings are here!  We are in the middle of summer and what better way to take a break from the heat then with some new sex toys?  You have probably been spending a ton of money on vacations, bbq’s and lotion to treat that nasty sun burn.  So I’m sure saving 10% on your next sex toy purchase would be a much needed treat.  Well, you can and will save 10% on your next purchase on Sextoys.com when you type in summer_savings in the offer code box during your check out!  This offer is good through August 31st.

So, take yourself shopping and take a break from your outdoor activities.  Get yourself something nice and spend a little time with yourself in the bedroom.  Your skin will thank you for it.

Don’t know where to start?  Ladies across the land love Rabbit Vibrators.  They virtually stimulate every region of your girly bits.  They are great for a head spinning, toe twitching, jaw locking orgasm.  Our featured rabbit, The Rabbit Habbit by Vibratex, is at the top of its class.

Rabbit Habit

“Need the perfect vibe? Just like its cousin, the Rabbit Pearl, this lovely, purple elastomor dual-action vibrator has tumbling pearls and a rabbit-shaped stimulator.

The only difference? The vibrations are controlled from the base instead of a separate battery pack. Featured in O Magazine as the Rolls Royce of sex toys.

Also in Self, Glamour, Jane and many more publications. The total length is 9 inches with an insertable length of 4 inches. Requires 3 AA batteries, not included.”

If you already have a rabbit vibe that you love and adore, perhaps a new dildo would be a better item for your online shopping endeavor.  Rabbits are a necessity to anyone’s collection, but so is a good dildo or dong.  Vibration is a fabulous way to get you where you need to be, but sometimes a gal just needs a little dose of internal stimulation.  If you like size, then you will love the General by Tantus.  As always, it is made from body friendly silicone and has a flared base for use during strap on play.  OR anal play, if you dare.  Not to mention, it will definitely show love to your G-spot. 

The General

The General is a bigger dildo, with a thick diameter of 2 inches and a staggering length of 7 inches. This Tantus cock has a g-spot curve and is made out of body safe silicone, which is phthalate-free, can be sterilized and is meant to last a lifetime with proper care.

Tantus Inc. uses only the highest quality materials in the manufacture of their sex toys. These sex toys are an excellent choice for consumers who suffer allergies, or sensitivity to chemicals. Whether it is medical grade silicone or quality controlled, body safe and treated aluminum, you can be sure that the use of a Tantus sex toy is safe and healthy. For more information, see the interview with Metis Black from Tantus Inc. in the Sex Toys Blog.

“Must they during a commercial break be subjected to women talking about masturbation?”

This question was asked by Noel Sheppard in an article called Sex Toy Advertising During Prime Time – What’s Next?  Apparently he sat down to watch a movie with his children when the commercial for the Trojan Her Pleasure Vibrating Touch commercial aired.

“It’s hard enough watching television with your kids these days given all the Viagra and Cialis commercials, but are we now going to have to put up with ads for sex toys?”

Is it really so bad? The commercial is pretty innocent and isn’t graphic in any way. There are advertisements that alude to sexual behavior and bare more skin than in a lingerie catalog. Most people don’t think twice about them. Naturally, I believe sex toy use contributes to sexual health and I am glad it has hit the main stream.

Sheppard asked his readers to watch and decide for themselves as to whether or not the commercial is appropriate before 10 PM. I am going to ask the same of my sex toy loving ladies and gents.

Here is a little more about the Trojan Her Pleasure Vibrating Touch:

“Designed to be petite and discreet, the small powerful Trojan Her Pleasure Vibrating Touch Fingertip Massager is the perfect little aid to help create big pleasure. Whether used for foreplay of direct stimulation, it provides thrilling vibrations right at your fingertips.

-1 vibrating fingertip massager and 1 Her Pleasure premium latex condom
-Massager is enclosed in a soft casing that is gentle to the touch. -Massager can be removed from soft outer casing for more intense direct stimulation.
-Designed to be washable and reusable.
-2 button cell batteries included
-Batteries last up to 30 minutes and can be replaced
-Bonus storage pouch lets you discreetly store the fingertip massager.
-Includes a bonus Her Pleasure premium latex condom for when the foreplay leads to something more.”

Get it HERE!

I just found out about Topco’s new line from Sara at the Sextoys . com blog.  It looks like they are coming out with some new and interesting stuff for anybody and everybody.  Here is just a peek:

Under Adam & Eve Signature Toys is an exciting new line of Silicone Handmaiden products that are beautifully packaged and exquisitely designed. Also new under Adam & Eve Signature Toys is a frosted line of silicone products endorsed by Kayden Kross, whose popularity seems to ever be increasing. These latest innovations under the Adam & Eve brand are rounded out by several new strokers as well as personal care cosmetics.

Go now and find out what else Sara has to say about Topco’s new line!

People are always talking about marriage and boredom. This can involve anything from social lives to sex.  Now, you know I’m going to talk about the sex side of the scenario.

An article on CNN.com titled 9 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Healthy, Make Sex a Priority – but Not a Chore, came in at number 4.

“While you should make sex a priority, you shouldn’t pencil it in on your planner. If you schedule sex, it becomes a responsibility –just like taking out the trash, says Andrew Goldstein, M.D., an obstetrician and gynecologist at the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, in Baltimore, and the coauthor of “Reclaiming Desire.”

But it doesn’t matter whether you’re having sex five times a week or five times a year — as long as both of you are happy, says Dr. Goldstein. In fact, a 2008 study found that couples who reported any kind of marital intimacy — everything from holding hands to sex — exhibited lower levels of a hormone produced by stress.”

Take the opportunity to explore with your partner.  You are in it for the long haul, why not make it fun?  Go ahead and play; the adult way.  Go sex toy shopping together.  That in itself can be arousing.  Pick out some toys you would like to use together during partnered play.  I am always a big fan of shared masturbation.  Perhaps delve into that arena and show your wife or hubby what you do when you’re loving yourself.  You just might learn something that could make your partners head spin!

Not sure where to start?  Check out the Buzz 1 by Tantus.  Sara recommends it and you can find out why in her review on the Sextoys . com blog!  It is a great solo toy, but is also harness compatible.  Great for girls or hetero couples who want to explore pegging.

Furniture of the sexual kind also makes lovin’ fun.  I love my Fantasy Swing!  You can get into positions that just are not physically possible on a bed or even the kitchen counter.  There are other pieces of furniture that can take your positions to the next level.  They won’t have you suspended from the ceiling or in need of a yoga class to get warmed up.  Take a peek at the Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Position Master.

Humans have sex for pleasure.  Don’t forget that.

In celebration of summer we are offering 20% off with a special offer code.  If this summer isn’t hot enough for you then go on over to sextoys.com and do some shopping.  Just enter the following offer code at time of check out:

summerheat

Don’t miss this deal.  Celebrate summer with some sexy toys at 20% off!

Apparently women lack the ability to be raunchy writers.  I guess I missed the memo on that one.

The new owner of Britain’s Erotic Review, Kate Copstick, is in favor of males when it comes to writing about hot and dirty sex.  I found this little gem on Reuters.  It was reported by Paul Launer.

“Women are not passionate enough about sex and concentrate too much on feelings to be able to write raunchy stories, the new owner of Britain’s Erotic Review said on Monday.

Determined not to let the magazine be “drowned in estrogen,” she said she would have almost exclusively male writers as they knew a lot more about sex.

“I think women, too many of them, whether it’s nature or nurture or politics, they’re not straightforward about sex,” Kate Copstick told Reuters.

“It’s almost like writing about food … Ladies who lunch, should not really write about food because they don’t really love food. They don’t salivate at the thought of a great steak.”

My job here at SexToysForLadies . com is to discuss sex toys in a semi-light hearted tone.  However, I have read plenty of blog posts by women who are downright dirty in the best possible way.  Do all female sex writers only concern themselves with candle lit bubble baths and massages?  Hardly.  From gangbangs to BDSM, I have read articles by women that dampen panties and make men’s jeans a little tighter.  So yes, the ladies can write the raunch AND they like to read it!

Need a little raunchy writing inspiration?  Check out our full selection of anal sex toys.

I was just checking out Link Love over at HotMoviesForHer.com and I found something I wish I could participate in.

Photo via Air Sex World Championships

Air Sex. I want to do this. It is like playing the air guitar except it is much naughtier; it seems like a lot more fun, too. It is pure brilliance if you ask me. I won’t be able to show my skills this year. I am SO going to practice my moves for next year!