It is incredibly easy to get into a bedroom routine.  You engage in just enough foreplay to get everyone ready for a zombie-like session of intercourse.  You’re bored with yourself, but uninspired.  You want your sex life to be more exciting, but you’re tired, you’re stressed, you have to wake up early, you don’t have time, you have more important things to worry about, blah blah blah.  Well, get over yourself!  Foreplay doesn’t have to be complicated.  You can get as creative as you want, but it is often the simple things that put the life back in your Night of the Living Dead.

Take it back to the old school:

Kissing:  Deep passionate kisses can get the mood going in just the right direction.  The intense intimacy allows the excitement to build before the clothes come off.  If you have been in a relationship for a long time, making out is a great way to rekindle the puppy love.  It’s not just for teenagers!

Flirting:  At times, flirting is just flirting.  It may only get you a blushing face or a giggle.  However, if that flirt eventually leads you to the bedroom, then it can be foreplay too!  Flirting is another classic activity that is perfect for those in long term relationships.  Comment on how great your gal’s rear end looks in those new jeans.  Check her or him out.  Make them feel like they are just the bee’s knees.  That make out session should follow shortly thereafter. 

• Flirting is awesome because you can do it just about anywhere: at the grocery store, at a fancy restaurant, over the phone, at a PTA meeting, you get the idea.  Getting all hot in bothered in public adds another fun layer to foreplay.

Touch: Exploring all of the shapes and nuances that the body has to offer is incredibly erotic.  Allow your hands to enjoy the soft texture of the skin, the muscle definitions and even those deliciously jiggly areas.  You can feel the sexual energy oozing from their body while transferring yours to them.  Pay attention to their reactions as you caress various regions of the body.  The curve in the back and the arch of the foot might be some seriously sensitive hot spots.  I personally want nothing more than to fall asleep after an intense massage.  You can pretty much count me as useless.  However, many boast that a massage is the perfect way to start off a romantic evening of sexual bliss.  Light some candles and grab the massage oil to really set the mood.

Toys: Now you knew this was coming.  It is in fact my job to tell you how awesome sex toys are.  I will have you know that I have no problem professing how awesome “adult products” are regardless of who signs my paycheck.  I’ll get to the point: Vibrators are perfect for teasing.  You don’t have to go straight for the clitoris either.  Tickling the inner thighs, and following the perimeter of her naughty bits just might have her pawing at you like a wild kitty cat.  Light kink items are also great to add to your arsenal of foreplay.  Activities involving blindfolds and soft core restraints will drive your lover wild.  Tickle, tease and please without your other knowing what your next move will be.  Give a little and take it all back.  Just be ready for one intense steamy hot bed rattling night of naughtiness when you really get your hands on each other. 

Of course you can use your imagination when it comes to foreplay.  You can take some of these basic ideas and go wild.  This is just a reminder that the simple things can get the zombies out of your bedroom.  Not that I don’t love zombies; they have their place.  You know, like in George Romero movies.

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