Need a special gift for your special lady?  Do you have a gal pal that deserves a great little something?  We have 2 fabulous categories that have everything you need to make your shopping a little easier this year!

Gifts For Women naturally has awesome products that will make just about any woman grin from ear to ear as she tears through the wrapping paper.  Items like the Lovemoiselle Noemie ceramic dildo and MyVibe bullet vibrator necklace are perfect for those intimate gift exchange moments.  Be careful though, she just might disappear for the rest of the holiday season!  You’ll be left to entertain your in-laws all by yourself as she spends quality time with her fun new sex toys.  Um, eggnog anyone?

Equally as exciting is our newest addition, the Bath & Beauty category.  This is where you will find fabulous products that are great for making bath time – or after bath time – extra special.  We have vibrating sponges, water friendly lubes, sensuously scented bath gels and lotions, massage oils and tub toys for grown-ups!  I don’t know too many women that wouldn’t be delighted to receive a gift from this selection of Bath & Beauty products.  Give her the present that will pamper her for the rest of the year.

Are you sure you’ll end up with another lovely world’s best mom sweater?  How about that awesome Power Chopper 3000 (as seen on TV)?  Treat yourself to Intimate Organics Sensual Body Souffle or even better, to the Bgee waterproof G-spot vibrator.  You are going to need it and you will definitely deserve it after this Thanksgiving.

“Intimate Organics Aromatherapy Body Souffle Cocoa Bean and Goji Berry is truly a delicious way to prepare your skin for a night of romance. This incredibly light lotion softens and soothes while leaving your skin smelling delicious.

Enriched with a blend of certified organic extracts, olive oil, shea butter, mango butter, and the antioxidants goji berry and cocoa bean. 5 ounce bottle.”

Stop searching for the perfect gift idea.  We have already narrowed down your choices into 2 categories that are filled with great gifts for her.  All you have to decide is whether you want your gift to be naughty or nice!

Here is a little bath time holiday treat for your eyes.  Watch the breath taking Betty Page as Something Weird presents her Bubble Bath!

Looking for the perfect wedding night panties?  Here they are!  These soft and sexy white thongs are perfect for holy hot matrimony!  Get hitched and then get… well, you get the point.  Either one of these ultra femme panties will have your newly wedded boo marching straight to the bed, carrying you over the threshold of lust.

“He won’t be able to resist you in this classic styled Knit Chiffon thong with intricate beaded applique on back. Perfect for when you want to show off what nature has given you. Its made with 100 percent polyester. Also includes the garter with Satin bow trim.

Part of the Dreamgirls product line.  Size: One Size Fits Most.”

Hint: One Size generally means medium-ish.  Also, having a lingerie party for the bride-to-be’s bachelorette part?  This thong is a great gift idea! 

For the delectably plus sized bride, the Nuptials Bridal Thong will frame your fabulous curves just right.  Who could resist a gorgeous rear end adorned ruffle-y see through trim? 

Um, noone.

“Ruffled tulle thong with back veil and satin ribbon hem. O/S Queen.”

Whether you are sweet and petite or curvaciously devine, the perfect panties for your wedding night are right here!

Are you and your mate getting bored in the bedroom?  Is your routine getting a little too routine?  Do you simply want to try something new in the sack?  Strap on sex is here to save the day!

Whether you are a lady who holds a strict girls only policy, a boy lovin’ babe or somewhere in between (some may call us selfish), strap on sex is a sure way to put the jolt back in anyone’s cola of kink.

We have plenty of harnesses, strap on dildos and all in one kits for you to choose from.  Let’s chat about them, shall we?

Harnesses, you say?

Vibrating harness with interchangeable O rings

The harness is the apparatus that you wear in which the dildo is attached to.  It connects you to the fun.  There are various styles:

G-string/ 2 strap – One strap around the waist, one between the legs

- Less secure than other types; sagging of the dildo tends to occur, the dildo may flop, in turn you will have less control.
- Straps may rub in between the cheeks and may be irritating.

Bikini/panty- exactly what it sounds like

- Some come in the form of shorts
- Less secure, less control and flopage has been known to occur with this variety
- Some find these to be more comfortable then the G-string style harnesses.

Three strap – one strap around the waist, 2 thigh straps: each strap comes from the crotch and wraps around each thigh.

- Very secure and gives you maximum control of your newest member!

Like most things in life, there is some variation within these harness types.  Some even vibrate!  What is awesome about all strap on harnesses?  There is a chance that the wearer will also get a pleasurable sensation from them!  That’s right, while the strap on-er is giving it to the strap on-ee, there will be a little movement and the friction from the harness will put a tingle in just the right spot.

When it comes to choosing the right one for you, you must decide which would be most comfortable and how much control you want to have over your fun new appendage.

How do you attach the dildo to the harness?  The most common is the o-ring style attachment.  Once the dildo is in place, the ring secures the dildo’s flared base to the harness.  The o-ring must be larger than your dildo.  If the ring is too small for your dong, it won’t fit and then everyone is just sad.  Keep this in mind and try to purchase a harness that allows you to change the o-rings so you can use different sized dildos.

Can’t I just use any old dildo during strap on sex?

No, but you can use a lot of them.  Strap on dildos must have a flared base or set of balls.  Got it?  Some dildos are made with strap on harness compatibility in mind.  Both Tantus and Vixen Creations make lots of fabulous silicone dildos that are perfect for steamy hot strap on sex.

Strap on Kits come with the harness and compatible dildo all in one!  No need to play the strap on dildo-harness match game.  It has been done for you!  Some even come with multiple o-rings so you can change out your dildos.

What about those Vac-U-Lock contraptions?  Doc Johnson has patented a system in which the hollow end of the dildo locks on to the “attachment plug” protruding from the harness.  Only Vac-U-Lock dildos are compatible with Vac-U-Lock harnesses and vice versa. 

Have fun choosing your tools of choice.  Think about the right size, what type of harness you would be most comfortable in and so on.   Strap on sex is fun, but if the equipment isn’t right you won’t get the most out of your play time.

Who said comfy panties can’t be sexy? 

Boyshorts don’t just belong to the boys anymore; chicks everywhere are rocking them.  They look super hot and are super comfy – no wedgification!  I love my lace thongs and gluing rhinestones to my burlesque unders gives me great pleasure, but boyshorts are my absolute favorite. 

These Penthouse Boyshorts are a great addition to anyone’s panty drawer.  Whether you are an all the way comfy classic girl, or an are ultra femme lady, you will definitely get some wear out of these.  They are perfect under jeans, but also go well with an oversized or baby-T when lounging around the house.

“Always find yourself wearing his underwear? Well now Penthouse Lingerie presents these comfortable black and white boyshorts. They are trimmed in white and have a white waste band that has “penthouse” in black stitched around the boyshorts.”

They also come in white!

He must be pretty special because prostate massages are known to give men full bodied, explosive orgasms that will have them groveling at your feet for days to come.  The male prostate is equated with the female g-spot and is often called the p-spot.

Here is a little how to and why:

Prostate Massage = Prostate Health

- Increases blood flow to the prostate which supplies nutrients and oxygen to the male reproductive system.
- May help improve erectile function.
- Can boost semen quality.
- And more!

I am not a doctor!  Check with a medical doctor to see what health risks are associated with prostate stimulation.  It is known that people with prostate cancer or acute prostatitis should not receive prostate massages, as it could cause both to spread.  Visit your doctor and find out what other conditions apply.  Proceed at your own risk!

What you will need:

- Lube
- Latex gloves, nitrile gloves or finger cots.
- Prostate Massager – If you choose to use one, finger(s) works.

Preparation:

- For Him – He should take care of his business and make sure everything is empty, shower and clean thoroughly
- For you – Wash your hands thoroughly, trim your fingernails and smooth rough edges, have your lube and gloves ready to go.  One gloved hand is sufficient.

I am assuming you have set the mood and made sure everyone was on the same page and ready for the back door expedition. 

It is generally best for him to start lying on his back with his knees up.  Start with a little foreplay and get him aroused – enjoy being in the driver’s seat!  Apply a generous amount of lube to your gloved hand.  Tease externally first.  Massage the entrance with slow circular motions.  Pay attention to his body language and the noises he makes.  Does he seem nervous and tense, or does it seem as though he is offering up is tush? 

Now for the real prostate massage how to:

Slowly and gently slide your lubed gloved finger into his anus.  You will feel a bulky mass that is about the size of a walnut.  That is the prostate gland.  You can use a circular technique, the upward come hither technique (as if you are summoning someone to come towards you with your finger) or a press and release technique.  Whatever you choose, it is best to not focus too much on the very center of the gland.  It is very sensitive.  While you should find a rhythm, do not vigorously massage the prostate – you may cause damage!  There will only be a thin layer of skin separating your finger from the gland and it is quite fragile.  The whole process should be gentle.  Continue to stimulate him in other ways unless he requests otherwise.

Again, pay attention to his reactions.  If he seems uncomfortable, check in and make sure he wants to continue.  If his eyes are rolled back and he is moaning with pleasure, keep doing what you’re doing!

What will happen?

Non-ejaculatory fluid may be released (excess fluid from gland).  This is called milking the prostate – another health benefi. 

He may have an earth shattering non-ejaculatory full bodied orgasm.  Awesome! 

Put your goggles on because he may have a seriously explosive orgasm!  During the massage, additional seminal fluid will be produced.

Aneros Maximus

Enjoy sending your partner to orgasmic bliss.  When you are finished, slowly slide your finger out and give yourself a pat on the back (after you wash your hands).  Giving pleasure can be as rewarding and stimulating as receiving it.  After washing up, go ahead and get your vibrator out.  You deserve it!

If you are not comfortable using your fingers, we offer a ton of great prostate massagers.  Many men love products by Aneros.

Have fun and communicate.  Prostate massage can bring your adult play to a whole new level.

The Lowrise Tanga Panties are fun to look at and functional.

The stretch lace material has girly-girl written all of over it and that plunging dip front leaves just the bare minimum left to the imagination (not necessarily a bad thing).  The design of this thong isn’t solely meant to seduce you; it is perfect for wear with low rise jeans!  Have you ever put on a pair of pants only to find that your panties are peeking out to say hi?  No need to worry with these.  Another perk: no lines and no thin elastic straps to squeeze your hips.  In other words, this thong will provide a nice smooth view from behind and less chance of “muffin top”.

If pink isn’t your style, the Lowrise Tanga Panty also comes in black and white.

Silicone dildos are awesome.  It’s a fact.  We love them so much that we dedicated an entire category to them.  Regardless of your dildo style, there is a silicone dildo out there for you.

Let’s talk about a few, shall we?

Leisure: For the simple chick who likes her toys understated, simple and satisfying.  Also for the girl who likes to dabble in a little bit of strap on play.

“The perfect harness toy. The Leisure is so simple that you might wonder why it wasn’t developed sooner. Leisure has a narrow tip for a gentle beginning, and smooth shaft that bends to your body’s interior curves.”

Little Su Natural Dildo

Little Su Natural Dildo: For the unique lady who likes hands free play and clitoral stimulation with her silicone dildo.  It is quite versatile and can stimulate your partner while you wear it; there’s nothing wrong with a little bump and grind!  It comes with an instruction manual with tons of fun ideas for use.

“The Little Su by Joya 4U is an inventive new silicone toy that was designed by women, with women in mind! The smart design teases the sensitive vaginal opening, G-Spot and clit all with the same toy. The amazing clitoral bump rests in place upon insertion, allowing for hands-free solo play. Women will find it adds to both solo and partnered sex equally!”

Cavalier:  If you’re a bit anal, this is the dildo for you!  I’m not talking about your attention to detail, either.  Described as a “butt plug crossed with anal beads”, this silicone wonder is sure to please all who like anal play.

“The Cavalier dildo has an amazing texture, full of graduated bulges and sexy raised curves, and is perfect for a fun evening of anal play! The flared base makes it perfect for use with a harness, and also works as a suction cup, sticking to any flat, non-porous surface for hands free fun.”

Hoss

Hoss: Size queens, you know who you are.  Hoss is for the ambitious woman who wants it all and then some.  With 11 insertable inches and an 8.5 inch girth, beginners are no match for this big hunk of burning love.

“Size Queens rejoice! Hoss is the biggest silicone cock Tantus makes and is perfect for those of you looking to ride a big old stallion until you scream! The impressive girth and long shaft are sure to be enough to fulfill even the greediest people out there – so put on your spurs and give ‘er a go!”

Goodfella:  For the woman who likes em’ real.  This dildo is great for the person who likes to strap it on and give the receiver that life like feel.  This Vixskin cock has a comfortable base, a satisfying texture and 3D balls.  Yes, I said 3D balls.

“This special design allows the receiver to feel the true-to-life testicles with every thrust, instead of an O ring or fastener. Also excellent as a pack and play dildo, the Goodfellas flexible silicone allows him to be gently bent down to wear under clothes in a harness, springing up and ready to go when the moment strikes.”

Ella

Ella: For the classy broad.  This g-spot dildo oozes with elegance and sophistication. 

“ELLA is a dedicated pleasure object with one end precisely designed to reach and stimulate the G-spot area, the other fashioned for conventional erotic stimulation.”
 

What is all of this silicone dildo hype about?  They are hypoallergenic, nonporous, phthalates free and scent free.  What does this mean to you?  It means they are body safe and won’t cause irritation or infections like other toys made out of porous materials.  They can be sterilized (as long as no vibe is present) by means of boiling for less than 10 minutes, washing with a 10% bleach solution or placed in the dish washer (no detergent).  Since they can be completely sterilized they can be shared with a friend – or 2 if that’s how you roll.  As long as they are cared for properly they have a long life span. 

Here is some helpful info: If possible store your silicone dildos upright.  Be sure not to rest them on top of one another, this may cause some deterioration.  Always use a water based lube!  Silicone lube will eat away at your precious silicone dildo!

Treat yourself to a silicone dildo and you will see what a valuable investment it is.  You and your naughty bits deserve it!

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I am declaring November as National Panty Month.  Each week during the month of November I will feature a different pair.  Some people complain about getting underwear as gifts.  Not me!  I love new panties!  I know a woman or two who also get excited about new thongs or boy shorts.  If you are going to purchase panties for your special someone, it may be in your best interest to do some snooping and find out what size they wear AND whether they are into sexy, comfy, both or somewhere in between.  Looking to spice up your bedroom activities?  Vibrating or tear away types may be the way to go.

The first pair also happens to be in our Gifts for Women Category.  These sexy Lace Boyshorts look great wrapping around her hips and allow a little bit of cheek to peek out.  The lace with shimmer accents is feminine without that over the top “fru-fru” panty look.  They are totally affordable and make a great stocking stuffer or even a fabulous just-because present.   These panties come in one size; they probably fit medium sized gals the best.

“All over sexy lace boyshort. Scalloped edging at waist and at leg openings.  Lace has metallic accents for an ultra sexy basic.”

You have used your friendly fingers and explored all of the fun things that anal toys have to offer.  You have become well acquainted with anal play.  You stocked up on the lube and through lots of communication you have both decided that the big day has arrived: you are going to have anal sex.  (Did you miss Part 1 and Part 2?)

First things first: Cleanliness.  It is a good idea to “take care of your business” when you know that anal pleasures are in store.  Shower and be thorough about it.  Special surprises may make you both feel a little uncomfortable.  Some people prefer to use enemas.  Do not use an enema right before you engage in anal play or intercourse.  Give yourself plenty of time for the enema to work its magic.  As a side note, if “special surprises” do occur, try to remain calm.  No one likes to feel embarrassed, especially during play time!   

You don’t just start off with full on anal intercourse.  This is a special occasion so go ahead and set the mood.  Make sure your house or apartment is at a comfortable temperature.  It is hard to get in the mood for any type of play when you are covered in goose bumps or dripping with perspiration.  I am a firm believer in creating the atmosphere that suites your personality and turns you on.  If you enjoy soft music and candles, then by all means light em’ up and get your Yani on.  However, that may not tickle your fancy.  If punk rock and bright lights get you going, then turn them up! 

Foreplay is always important.  Do the things you do that get each other all hot and bothered.  Make out, undress each other, massage each other or dress up in giant bunny costumes.  You get the point.  Since the penultimate act of anal sex is in store, use the lessons you learned in Part 1 and 2 to get you there.  Use a lot of lube, tickle her back door, get your fingers involved and spend some time with her favorite butt plug or anal dildo.  This will get her in the mood and ensure that she is warmed up.

Condoms!  Do I really have to say more?  Play it safe and wrap it up!

There are other safety precautions you must take here as well.  Never ever go from the anus to the vagina during anal sex or any other type of anal play.  This can cause infections and irritations!  Wash and change condoms before switching playgrounds.  This is true for any type of anal play.

While you may imagine the skies opening up, angles singing and flurries of iridescent glitter falling from the sky as you engage in mad passionate anal sex, that isn’t quite the case.  Take it is easy and go slow.  Make sure she is in a comfortable position that will allow her to relax.  This may take experimentation at first.  Some women prefer to be on top in the cowgirl position so they can control the level of penetration.  Others prefer to lie flat on their stomachs.  Perhaps it is not the most romantic of all positions, but may be a good start. 

Remember to breathe!  Holding your breath will only tighten your sphincter muscles and makes insertion painful.  Breathing is your friend – with that whole oxygen thing going on and whatnot.  It is a good idea to continue with vaginal stimulation when you are diving into anal sex.  Women may stimulate themselves with a vibrator or their hands, or they may enjoy their partner doing it for them.  The extra stimulation can produce ultra-orgasmic results!  Enjoy your anal sex session and continue to experiment.  This is only the beginning of what so many consider taboo.  Many people are curious about it and love it.  Follow the right path and it can be yours to behold!

If it is painful, then she’s just not ready.  Don’t push her; move on to other fun play time activities.  You can always try again when you are both ready.  It will only get better with time.

Would you like to receive your anal education through DVD?  Check out Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Anal Sex.  While you’re at it, check out the awesome butt plug that she designed!