I love fancy toys that buzz, but sometimes I get a craving for a good old fashioned dong.   

For longest time I had my eye on the Tantus O2 Revolution Candy.  Lucky for me, that wish was fulfilled!  It was big, pink and my did it get the job done.  While I still love my O2 Revolution, my attention has been averted to another Tantus Silicone stud.

The Throb has made it to number 1 on my list.  It is realistic and smaller than the O2 Revolution, measuring 5 ½ inches in length and a solid 4 ½ inches in circumference.  The size will make this toy less of a challenge.  I am always up for a good challenge, but sometimes I just want to enjoy my sex toys with ease.  Its super veiny-ness also sparked my interest.  It looks super satisfying – just the right sized and textured to please.  It is black with a matte finish; understated sexiness is a plus.

Another reason I want another Tantus silicone dong?  100% phthalates free, hypoallergenic and totally safe for use on your most sensitive girl regions.  Boil this guy for a few minutes and he is all clean and ready for the next round. 

P.S.  It is harness compatible.  It sure looks like it would be fun to use with a friend.

Get your own Tantus Throb!

Doesn’t it sound like a little finger that is into BDSM? 

Or perhaps another term for light anal play?

Well, Kinky Pinky Cuffs are none of the above.  They are however a set of soft restraints for those who are looking to get their feet wet in the world of restraints.  How intimidating can they really be?  They’re pink. 

“These Kinky Pinky Cuffs by Flirt will add a little kink to anyone’s bedroom games. These sexy yet safe cuffs will allow you and your partner to explore light bondage in a fun way.

Flirt is the leader in playful bedroom fun and this kit is exactly what lovers that want time alone need. Contains one pair of pink cuffs with attached 36 inch straps (useful for fastening your partner to the bedposts).”

The price is super reasonable.  Go ahead and add a few toys to tickle your toy while they are yours for the taking!

You know how I love to give!  I decided to give everyone who is shopping on Sextoys.com a discount.  Do something nice for yourself and buy that new vibrator you’ve had your eye on; or get your boo something new to play with.  They don’t have to know you got a great deal on it.

Save 20% on your entire purchase on Sextoys.com.

Enter the following offer code when you are checking out:

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You have until Monday to save 20% by using this offer code.  Now go shopping!

People are always talking about marriage and boredom. This can involve anything from social lives to sex.  Now, you know I’m going to talk about the sex side of the scenario.

An article on CNN.com titled 9 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Healthy, Make Sex a Priority – but Not a Chore, came in at number 4.

“While you should make sex a priority, you shouldn’t pencil it in on your planner. If you schedule sex, it becomes a responsibility –just like taking out the trash, says Andrew Goldstein, M.D., an obstetrician and gynecologist at the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, in Baltimore, and the coauthor of “Reclaiming Desire.”

But it doesn’t matter whether you’re having sex five times a week or five times a year — as long as both of you are happy, says Dr. Goldstein. In fact, a 2008 study found that couples who reported any kind of marital intimacy — everything from holding hands to sex — exhibited lower levels of a hormone produced by stress.”

Take the opportunity to explore with your partner.  You are in it for the long haul, why not make it fun?  Go ahead and play; the adult way.  Go sex toy shopping together.  That in itself can be arousing.  Pick out some toys you would like to use together during partnered play.  I am always a big fan of shared masturbation.  Perhaps delve into that arena and show your wife or hubby what you do when you’re loving yourself.  You just might learn something that could make your partners head spin!

Not sure where to start?  Check out the Buzz 1 by Tantus.  Sara recommends it and you can find out why in her review on the Sextoys . com blog!  It is a great solo toy, but is also harness compatible.  Great for girls or hetero couples who want to explore pegging.

Furniture of the sexual kind also makes lovin’ fun.  I love my Fantasy Swing!  You can get into positions that just are not physically possible on a bed or even the kitchen counter.  There are other pieces of furniture that can take your positions to the next level.  They won’t have you suspended from the ceiling or in need of a yoga class to get warmed up.  Take a peek at the Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Position Master.

Humans have sex for pleasure.  Don’t forget that.

So I love my O2 Revolution by Tantus.  It feels real and sure is pretty.  It provides that fulfilled sensation, but certainly requires some warm up.  I think I have found just the toy to pair with my beloved candy colored wonder, Compact Red by Tantus.

“Compact is a small starter dildo that is a great toy for warm up. The head has an upward tilt that is designed to touch the G-spot or prostate in just the right way. It is only 1in x 5-1/4in, which makes this toy perfect for beginners.

The Compact is also harness compatible with a very small O-ring. Hypoallergenic, boilable, bleachable and dishwasher safe.”

Beginners, get on the right path to toy enlightenment with this body safe dildo.  Seasoned pros, warm up right with the right equipment.  Either way, your G-spot will thank you.

Check out our fabulous selection of products by Tantus.

Ginger’s recent post on Pjur Eros Original got me thinking about one of my favorite things in the world, lube!  Every woman should have a few great bottles that they can rely on.  Oh, and if you’re thinking you don’t need lube, let me just say that everything is better with lube.  Trust me and try it.

When it comes down to what you need to know, there are two types of lube to be considered – water-based and silicone-based.  Today I’m going to talk a little bit about silicone based products for all of you who are curious!

When compared to water-based products, silicone lubricant lasts a lot longer typically and that’s one of the reasons why I really love it.  A dollop of a good product and you’re good to go.  I will admit that they are often a little more expensive, but when you only need a drop or two the costs balance out in the end.

Knowing that, you may wonder why one would even consider anything but silicone lube, but the one thing you have to remember is that silicone lube is not compatible with silicone sex toys.  When combined, it causes the structure of the toy to break down and no one wants to ruin an amazing (and probably pricy) silicone toy.  Because of this, I always have a good water-based bottle on hand when I want to break out my Bandito.

Getting back to the good stuff about it, silicone  lube is a must have if you’re somebody who likes to get wet and wild.  There’s really no other option for playing in the shower or hot tub because water-based lube washes away before you have a chance to even get started!  A good silicone lube will keep everything slick while you slip slide away!

Because it’s long lasting, I really like silicone lubricant for anal play.  I would never recommend butt sex without lubricant, since there’s no natural lubrication it’s a really bad idea.  One of my favorites is Gun Oil – it’s definitely top of the line.  If you don’t believe me, here’s what Sextoys.com’s Bill Turner has to say about it, “Simply the best lubricant I’ve ever used in terms of ease of application, durability and cleanup, which is to say, everything.”

Of course, I want you to be well informed, so here are a few things I think are less than amazing about silicone lube.  First up, they have been known to stain sheets or other fabrics.  Boo.  Secondly, it is noticeably different from a woman’s natural lubrication.  I don’t have an issue with this, but some people might.

In my opinion, the positive aspects of a good silicone lube outweigh the negatives by a mile.  I definitely recommend giving it a shot in the near future!

Want to learn more about lube?

Sarah from the Sextoys.com blog will be coming by tomorrow to drop some knowledge on us!  She writes great, informative reviews and articles and tomorrow she is going to share some of her lube smarts with us. 

Ladies, check in first thing to see what Sarah has to say about that lovely thing called lube.

There is a reason Pjur Eros Original is one of our Featured Products for Couples.

Unlike water or oil based lubricants, this lube doesn’t absorb into your skin. You won’t find yourself constantly reaching for the bottle to reapply. There is nothing sexy about searching through sheets the right in the middle of your mattress romp session. I know you know what I am talking about here. You try to maintain your position as you feel around with your hands. Then your partner gets involved in the search so you get out of position. Eventually you both get up and turn on the lights, only to find that it was right next to you the entire time.

I say, put a stop to the lube quests and get Pjur Eros Original.

“Latex and rubber compatible. Use for Latex or rubber shining. Tasteless, odorless, and fragrance-free. Hypo-allergenic. Feels silky and smooth and never dries out. Allows the skin to breathe without blocking pores.”

You can also use this bodyglide during gentle massages. I love that this stuff is multi-purpose and body safe!

When should you not use Pjur Eros Original? During play with silicone toys! Unless you have a vendetta against your silicone toys and want to melt them, do not use this when playing with them! This is lube is silicone based, which never mixes well with silicone toys. Got it?

Get your own bottle of Pjur Eros Original.

Crazy

cra-zy [krey-zee]

-adjective

1. mentally deranged; demented; insane.
2. senseless; impractical; totally unsound
3. intensely anxious or eager.
4. likely to break or fall to pieces.
5. description of one who has gone without sexual activity.

- Thanks dictionary . com

Ladies, do you need a little help with your game?  Maybe you just want to add a little something to make your boy or girl attack you upon site.  These Crazy Girl products by Classic Erotica may have just what you need to get the gals and guys following you like Pepe Le Pew.  Hopefully, they won’t smell like a skunk.

First bathe with Naughty Bubbles and let the Pheromones soak into your skin.

Next, rub yourself down with Passion Flower Scented Pheromone Sexy Shimmer Lotion.

Then, give yourself a little sprits with Pheromone Body Mist.  Now, go get your guy or girl!

Need some ambiance?

Light the Sin in a Tin Candle and set your bed on fire!  Well, not really.  This last little touch will have you enjoying some hot and steamy hanky panky in no time!

Has it been a while?  Don’t go crazy.  Get Crazy Girl!

Need a new friend?  Make this Silicone Bunny your Buddy!

He will be loyal until the end (of his battery life that is) and he will always be there to listen.  That’s right, he will listen to your ooohs and aahhhs as he happily hops on your girly bits.  The only sound you will hear from him is that satisfying Bunny Buddy buzz!  Like Prince, you don’t have to be rich to be his friend.  He can be yours for a little more than $5. 

“Easy push button activated, waterproof micro massager. Use with or without the high quality silicone bunny. Bunny features tantalizing ears that hit all the right spots. Batteries included.”

Silicone makes him body safe, too!  What more could you ask for from this friendly little vibe?